Why I Do This: A Mission from the Heart

Forced to choose between mental health and physical health is my harsh reality and that of many veterans including my husband. I will never ever claim to know what it’s like to be in the military, to serve overseas or on deployment. 

Why This Mission Matters

Growing up as an Air Force brat in the ’80s, I faced constant change, bullying, and a difficult home life. My relationship with my father was strained, and the demand for respect in our house mirrored the military hierarchy. I survived abuse, trauma, homelessness, and loss—experiences that shaped my understanding of fear, C-PTSD, deep depression, debilitating anxiety, and dissociative amnesia.

Dissociative amnesia has stolen parts of my past, leaving gaps where memories should be. There are things I know happened, but I can’t fully remember. Other times, memories surface unexpectedly, pulling me into emotions I can’t always place. Living with this makes everyday functioning even harder, adding another layer to an already overwhelming world.

Finn, my psychiatric and cardiac service dog, has been my anchor through it all. Before him, navigating life felt impossible. He grounds me when my mind disconnects, alerts me before my body spirals into panic, and reminds me I’m safe. Saying he saved my life is an understatement.

Finn will be 5 this December, and I’ve had him since he was 8 weeks old. My passion is helping mental health professionals and veterans navigate the complex world of service dogs—because no one should have to do it alone. Education is key. We can’t advocate for or empower veterans unless we first educate ourselves.